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NLP – self responsibility

 

I received a request by mail  from a person who wanted NLP intervention.( Parts Integration).

In  my reply mail I agreed for the meeting and also requested him to speak to me for my better understanding of his need.

He chose to only use written communication. He wanted if he will become alright in one sitting.

I replied “may be; may be not; yet for the next 30 days if you practice what I share with you, in all likelihood you will get what you want”

I was shocked by the reply mail from him-
” I am already an NLPian; I could not do on my own; that’s why I want you to do it for me; If you say I have to do it for 30 days for reinforcement, then your way is not useful to me”

Peace be upon him !

NLP can be effective if only if

  1. you are willing to take responsibility for the result
  2. you are willing to be flexible to adopt different methods till you get the result
  3. you are willing to believe the process and surrender to the process

Most of the NLP techniques are Do It Yourself type.
You dont need to depend on someone else.
That is the speciality of NLP.

Hence NLP will be effective if and only if you decide to make it effective for you.
VRnlp helps you to realize this truth
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NLP – Self Responsibility

I received a request by mail  from a person who wanted NLP intervention.( Parts Integration).

In  my reply mail I agreed for the meeting and also requested him to speak to me for my better understanding of his need. 

He chose to only use written communication. He wanted if he will become alright in one sitting.

I replied “may be; may be not; yet for the next 30 days if you practice what I share with you, in all likelihood you will get what you want” 

I was shocked by the reply mail from him-
” I am already an NLPian; I could not do on my own; that’s why I want you to do it for me; If you say I have to do it for 30 days for reinforcement, then your way is not useful to me”

Peace be upon him !

NLP can be effective if only if 

  1. you are willing to take responsibility for the result
  2. you are willing to be flexible to adopt different methods till you get the result
  3. you are willing to believe the process and surrender to the process

Most of the NLP techniques are Do It Yourself type.
You dont need to depend on someone else. 
That is the speciality of NLP.

Hence NLP will be effective if and only if you decide to make it effective for you.
VRnlp helps you to realize this truth

கற்றார் -Scholar

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கற்ற செலச் சொல்லு வார்
/குறள் 722/

Among scholars he is a scholar

who holds scholars with learned lore

விளக்கம் : –

கற்றவர்கள் முன் தாம் கற்றவற்றை அவர்கள் மனத்தில் பதியுமாறு சொல்லி ஏற்கவைக்கத் தெரிந்தவர்களே, கற்றவர்களிலேயே மேலானவர்களாக மதித்து சொல்லப்படுவர்.

படித்தவர் மனத்தில் இடம் பிடித்தலே படித்தவரின் படிப்பின் பயன்.

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Beliefs – Limiting or empowering ?

 

 

LIMITING BELIEFS 

  1. People must treat me fairly
  2. I should not have difficulties in life
  3. Everyone must like me
  4. It is awful if I make mistakes
  5. If I dont do correctly, then I am no good
  6. Those who treat me well must be punished
  7. I must get what I want when I want
  8. I cannot control how I feel
  9. I get upset if people make mistakes
  10. I should not have negative thinking.

All the above 10 beliefs are irrational and limiting.

Life is not unfair intrinsically;

Life seems to be unfair by the meaning we give to events happening in our life.

Release these 10 limiting beliefs from your bosom.

Take life in your stride to ride on the road to progression.

VRnlp makes it happen !
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NLP -Circle Of Excellence

 

NLP- CIRCLE OF EXCELLENCE
Does excellence necessitate exerting and exhausting?
Does success mean hard work and struggle?

what is your understanding to succeed and grow?

Singing your way to success …….?

Dancing your way to success…. ?

Is it possible???

Yes… says NLP

You can sleep your way to success… why not???

NLP says possible. ….makes it possible…..

with CIRCLE OF EXCELLENCE technique…

Effectiveness in any endeavor depends on our state of mind.

CIRCLE OF EXCELLENCE gives one a resourceful state by which success becomes a matter of fact.

To discover your resources and tap it anytime you want….

VRnlp shows the way
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Benefits of NLP

Benefits of NLP Training

Benefits of NLP training can be as personal, exclusive & unique as your thumb is.
Yet I share here on a broad basis the various benefits of NLP training which
I am sure you will naturally come to appreciate.

Benefits of NLP is classified broadly as BODY, MIND, INTELLECT

 Benefit to body for physical well being

1) Access to the senses and your own sensuality

2) Sensitization and increased perception

3) Positive relationship to your body

4) Activating self healing power to strengthen immune system

5) Quickly overcome tiredness & exhaustion

6) Increased stamina coordination & rhythm

7) Increased expressiveness & personal charm

8) Brisk & bright body through increased body metabolism

9) Greater interest for physical exercise

10) Feel good factor

Benefit to mind for emotional well being

1) Greater self confidence & self esteem

2) Finding right way to deal with pressure & stress

3) Dissolving limiting pattern and belief

4) Reducing extreme feeling of helplessness

5) Access to latent positive power

6) Having naturally poised positive frame of mind

7) Developing self respect and attentiveness

8) Greater & greater inner control

9) Allowing transformation

10) Greater sense of being comfortable with one self

 Benefits to Intellect

1) Find new ways of doing & being

2) Find unconventional approach

3) Develop breakthrough thinking

4) Change of perspective

5) Instant grasp of situation & people

6) Intuitive power

7) Flexibility of thinking and approach

8) Appropriate response to situation than impulsive reaction

9) Fresh thinking

10) Whole brain approach

 

NLP makes you better in life;
With NLP you come to become a New Lovable Person
VRnlp makes it happen

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NLP to rewrite your past

 

VRnlp for change

 

It is said history repeats itself.

May be ‘yes’ in the normal circumstance.

Not necessarily with NLP intervention.

One need not allow undesirable influence from one’s past.
One can change one’s personal history.

One can become strong.

Memories of the past need not be erased whereas pain in the memory can be blotted out.

Dis empowering situations are many, like-

Experiencing crippling tension during argument

-Experiencing apprehension when dialoguing with a superior

-Being on the defensive when questioned

-Experiencing fear & anxiety before & during interview or exam

-Experiencing knee knocking anxiety in front of a group

-Unable to deal with confrontation

-teasing unpleasant event of the past

-nagging memory

 With appropriate NLP technique from VRnlp course you can become fresh and futuristic to achieve the result you want in life.

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Rewards of NLP

 

NLP helps you to achieve better business & personal result on a consistent basis as also makes you enjoy life  with greater satisfaction & fulfillment.
NLP also empowers you to take life in your stride and makes you deal with life situation from a postion of strength and authority.
NLP makes you responsible for life and so puts you in a resourceful state to give your maximum to life & get the  maximum from life.

NLP helps you to get released from limiting behavior and thought process;
NLP helps you to get released from limiting past.
NLP facilitates you to be powerful at almost all the time.

Thus you can –

 

    • gain significant growth in profession

 

    • iron out differences in relationship

 

    • develop quality relationship that is rewarding

 

    • gain greater confidence to explore and move towards your dream

 

    • successfully implement new business strategies.

 

  • and much more.

 

VRnlp makes you powerful and peaceful.
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what am I up to?

What am I up to?

This question hits people half way.

For some this question completely turns their life around. 
For some this question baffles and paralyses.

What am I upto?

When de we ask this question?

·         When we do not know the direction of our work stream,

·         when we do not get the result that we want,

·         when the expected outcome seems to be far-fetched,

·         when  we feel fatigued over unproductive dull routine

·         when we don’t get the recognition that we want

·         when we are overwhelmed with current assignment

Some are really blessed to have been tied to settled pattern and they simply and happily go through the motion till the last without even thinking about what next.

Yet many who are into a process of achieving a specific outcome and want it to happen soon get this intriguing question at some point.

What we do then?

If you are committed to getting what you want, then this question allows you to take inventory of what you have been doing, reexamine the current methodology and amend ways of doing to getting what you want.

If you are one who does by initial momentum then chances are that you take rest awhile to consider resuming later if the work still gives hints of hope.

If you are dragging thus far and suddenly you hit this question , chances are you drop altogether what you have been doing so far.

Life gives choices

Nothing is guaranteed in life.
Nothing is promised for eternity.
Nothing lasts forever.
Nothing comes along with us all along.

It is the interesting part and also the frustrating part. This is the paradox of life.
We seek permanence in a world of impermanence.
Life does not dictate or command of us. Life is not accountable to us. We are accountable to life.

What is it that we are going to offer to life is what matters more than what we get from life,

We are given a chance to travel on earth for life time without any charge.

We are given a chance and choice to make the journey in the way we want it.  

It is a matter of choice, every day choice;

We choose every moment what to happen in our life.

Like it or not this is the fact. You are given choices.

Prudence lies in choosing what does well to you and to those around you.  

Persevere or suffer  

Those who have been intrigued by this question reaffirm their conviction and reassure their faith in the system and make suitable amendments to the process and persevere till they get the result.

They re-frame this question as an opportunity to set right the course of action according changing trends and adapt the methodology lest they may become obsolete.

Products and organizations that were busy with immediate activity without long term perspective became obsolete in the process and faded away.

Organizations that keep asking time to time ‘what am I upto?” is alert to changing trends and stay alive and grow.

“Expansion is life Contraction is death”   says Swami Vivekananda.

To expand grow in life this question becomes very important.

Hence next time when you hit upon this question,
“What am I up to?”
what answer will you give?

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Operating System for Personal Effectiveness

 

6 Guiding Principles of NLP

(to well understand responsibility, resource, and result)

1. Everything  happens for a reason & purpose and it serves us

2.There is no such thing as failure; only results as feedback.

3.Whatever happens take responsibility.

4. It is not necessary to understand everything to be able to use everything.

5. People are your greatest resource.

6. There is no abiding success without commitment.

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