NLP through stories – story 34

A woman went to meet her friend at her residence. 
She was introduced to the daughter of her friend.
This woman commented to the daughter, ” You look like 8th standard student, though you study now 5th standard only; why don’t you take up sports and participate in competition; surely you will win prizes”
Thereafter she spoke to her friend and left from there.
 A few months later, this woman got a call from her friend. The friend said,” Thanks for encouraging my daughter; she indeed participated in sports and has got prizes”
This woman was very happy, yet could not make out the background,” I dont remember to have particularly encouraged your daughter”
Her friend said,” Remember months before you came home; engaged in a conversation with my daughter, that time you suggested to her to involve in sports. She was feeling low about herself, But your words triggered the spirit in her; she started taking interest in studies & school activities; now she has won prize”   

The moral of the story is even innocent remark of good words
have electrifying effect on right thinking well meaning people.
The woman was not even aware of having encouraged the ‘daughter’;
it was more a matter of fact for her to speak well & kindly.
One of the principles of NLP is –
 Every communication either contributes to or contaminates relationship to a lesser of greater degree.

Communication is vital for quality life.
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