NLP Through ThirukkkuraL – Energy flows in the direction of focus

Energy flows in the direction of
focus
KuraL
அல்லவை தேய அறம்பெருகும் நல்லவை
நாடி இனிய சொலின். 10-96
Transliteration
Allavai theya aRam
perukum nallavai
naadi iniya solin
Meaning:
His
sins vanish, virtues grow
whose fruitful words with sweetness flow
Explanation
If we can speak kind
words with sweetness flowing in every utterance, it not only makes a positive
impression about us, it not only makes others feel nice and positively impacts
them, but cleanses our soul as well. Vices vanish virtue grows in us.
Coming to NLP
Energy flows in the direction of focus.
Words we utter before
impacting others first affects us. Our subconscious mind does not know the
difference between your or our , present or past.
Every statement we make
is a reinforcement of our belief.
Even in chiding others,
pinpointing mistakes of others, if we are unkindly, our mind takes it as dictum
for us too. Unknowingly if we do any mistake, our subconscious mind
automatically finds way to punish us.
Every expression is a
process of conditioning our mind. If we practice speaking kindly then mind
becomes resourceful automatically and so any past conditioning for pain or
punishment is dissolved and we become automatically a positive person.
NLP says speak
appropriately