SriAdishankara’s advice
ko’ andho? ( who is blind?)
Yo akaarya- ratah ( he who delights in knowingly doing what should not be done)
ko badhiro? ( who is deaf?)
yo hitaani na srunoti ( he who does not listen to advice given for his good)
ko muko? ( who is stupid?))
yah kaale priyaani vaktum na jannani ( he who does not know to speak sweetly when needed)