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A man wanted to sell his 2 acre land which he thought as good for nothing  and approached an agent to help to dispose the land.
Next day this man saw an ad in the paper, ” 2 acres of land located near highway, very good for cultivation with enough water resources; even it is suitable for factory building or residential purpose; best price”

After reading the advertisement this man went to the agent and said, ” I have changed my mind; after reading your ad, I now realise the worth of my land; I dont want to sell”

Is it not interesting??
Often times you & I have the real potential & value.
yet not taking apt reference you tend to conclude you are powerless or worthless.
You need someone to remind you of your glory.
NLP exactly does this job of reminding you of your worth.
You already have all the resources you need.
NLP reminds you; reinforces in you.
VRnlp makes it happen.
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He was haunted by a ghost dream every day.
He could not sleep peacefully every day.
The moment he closed his eyes images of ghost in various shapes & size
seized his mind and he was becoming restless.
Even during waking hours he was worried over ghost dream & loss of peace.
He was now truly possessed.


One day a monster ghost approached him.
He was totally terror-stricken, terrified petrified.

In a shaky voice he asked the ghost, ” what are you going to do?”

The ghost said, ” How do I know?? You created me & direct me; 
only you know what I have to do”

Is it not strange that what we create seem like dictating us?
Every thing in this world is a creation of mind and we get conditioned by our creation and they seem to dominate.
We get so much associated with them that we conclude we are possessed by them.
If we know the knack of disassociation we can understand ‘truth’ and respond adeqautely.

Also it is clear we respond to our perception of reality & not  real reality.


NLP talks of association & dissociation..
In order to understand & alter you must know dissociation &
in order to perform you must associate.

VRnlp teaches you how to associate & dissociate appropriately.
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The sculptor was fully focused in crafting a image from a stone.
An onlooker was surprised to find 2 more images,similar to the one the sculptor was making, already there;
He could not contain his curiosity & asked the sculptor where these 3 stone images were going to be placed.
The sculptor replied only one was going to be installed;
The onlooker asked,” why 3 images then?”
The sculptor said,” the other two has not come as he expected; especially the nose, perfection is mising”
Onlooker asked,” where is going to be installed?”
Th sculptor” 20 feet above ..there”
onlooker,” so high.. who will notice the nose ??”
The sculptor,” I will notice; I know”

This is what is called CONGRUENCE..
With regard to NLP learnng & practice you need to be congruent;
being true to your self is essential for appropriate outcome.
Nothing to compare, none to compete, align with your self and go by inner calling & hint.
Being true is important for authentic success.
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The second’s hand in a clock complained to the clock maker,” what a pain & dull routine for me; I need to keep on moving every second till the end, can you do something?


The clock maker said,” It’s easy; just focus on the next tic, rest is automatically done”

Often times in workshops people ask me,’the issue is doing the exercise & practice for one month;
I tell them this story and request them to focus doing that day; tomorrow will take care of itself.
It is more of belief system.
Their experience in the past have confirmed that they are not capable of doing something consistently; and so they doubt their focus to doing every day without fail and a mental estimate doing an assignment for 30 days seems a burden.
Doing one day is an achievement & focusing on that accomplishment and taking reference as an achiever you shift your focus from lack of consistency to capable of doing.
This will make you do continuously and consistently.  
How to eat an elephant?
”a bite at a time”
In NLP we call it as ‘CHUNKING’
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A woodcarver called Ching had finished work on a bell frame. Everyone who saw it marvelled at the work for it looked like a master piece.
The wood carver replied,” I am only simple workman. I am no genius.
But what I do is when I want to make a bell frame I first meditate to calm my mind. When I meditate for 3 days I dont think of rewards or punishment.
when I meditate for 7 days I forget myself; only my skill remains. 
In that state I will walk into the forest, stop at the tree that will give me the best frame; I see the bell frame in all its perfection.
Then my hands go to the task; having set myself aside, nature meets nature that is performed through me.
This no doubt is the reason why everyone says that the finished product is the work of spirits”

This is what we say as  being in a state of flow where thinking without thinking takes place.
A parallel to this story happened in the life of Swami Vivekananda; when he was in American wandering in the streets prior to Parliament of Religion meet in Chicago, he happened to see a boy struggling to shoot with his gun the target; Swami asked if he could try his hand; the boy agreed; Swami aimed & exactly hit the bull’s eye. The boy was amazed and asked if Swami was an expert shooter. Swami said it was the first he touched a gun; and Swami said, ”My boy, I did not simply aim at the target; I became the target and so as a matter of fact shooting became a flawless act.”

This is something may be hard to believe for those who are analytically inclined and logically questioning every act. 
It is more of being to becoming.
This calls for a state of mind which is still and calm. 
This is possible if one can ‘hasten slowly’ 
It is posssible with whole mind approach; a correct combination of right & left brain.
NLP has a number of tools to trigger your whole brain and have a resourceful state of mind for best result.
FLOW is sure.
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